ABC's of Sex Toys

The first thing you should do is have a discussion as a couple.
What is our level of comfort? Where do we want to start? What’s off limits?
You must be sure you are both on the same page and in full agreement.
Remember it’s mutual consent that honors one another. 1 Corinthians 7:5
Once you’ve determined what your comfort level is for now, it’s ok to change your mind.
Men can feel intimidated by the thought of a vibrator, so be sure to discuss this in great detail. Size, color, style, should it look like a penis or something completely different. Husband the vibrator isn’t replacing you and you’re not doing anything wrong; It is simply for pleasure between the two of you. Buying one together for the first time, may help to put your both at ease. Try forloversonly.org

Are Sex Toys Okay for Christians?

This is a questions we commonly hear. Should we use them? Are they okay? Is it sinful? Focus on the Family does a great job in this article walking the average Christian through the idea of sex toys with a spiritual lense.
If you are trying a toy there are a few healthy practices you’ll want to observe:

Comfort is key

For example, if you want to try bondage, try something light and playful such as holding hands above his/her head during foreplay. This way, you can see how you react before actually whipping out the pink furry handcuffs. If all goes well, then proceed with handcuffs. Likewise wifey, if you’re looking for him to stimulate you somewhere else, for example, place his fingers there and gauge his reaction before introducing a sex toy that might make him feel uncomfortable. The point here is to show him that the toy is all about your pleasure and not there to make up for his shortcomings. Once he sees that he will turn you on even more with the toy, how can he resist?

Experiment

Remember that intimacy is the goal. Only you know what works in your relationship and by communicating honestly, you are building the foundation for a healthy relationship in the future. It is entirely up to you to decide whether that means with or without sex toys, but a little experimenting never hurt anyone.

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